Have you ever had a dilemma when you receive a wedding invitation from a former lover. Do you need to come to the party or dodge better?
There are several considerations that you should do before deciding to answer the above questions. This is it!
How do you breakup story
Not all relationships are running smoothly. Sometimes it can end well, but there also would end with anger and resentment. Try to remember how to shape your relationship with the former last met. If you are still a lot of pent-up emotion or anger, should not have come, rather than the possibility of "drama" that you can lakoni at the party. But if your relationship as friends and former, there is no reason for you not to come.
Consider the social environment
Sometimes you also have the absence of other causes. For example, a discussion of the social environment. If you do not want to come, make sure your social circle and your partner will not develop a negative rumor or opinion.
Consider the feelings of the couple
Although you and your ex did not have any problems, but do not forget to ask the opinion of the couple. If it comes to the marriage of former spouse will only make you hurt, you should not need to be done. You better focus on the relationships being lived, rather than the past.
consider the goal
Try to be honest with yourself: what motivates you as a wedding present to a former lover. If your goal to stay in touch and pure reunion with friends, certainly could not hurt. But if you saved the desire to make your ex regret leaving, or making a wife of former intimidated by your beauty, it's better not to come. This proves there is pent-up emotions inside. Do not let your selfishness destroys the happiness of others.
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